The beginning of my 365 series of blogs. Can I do it? I don't know for sure, but I'm going to try. In honor of Patrick Swayze, and of course, Julie and Julia...

Why do we have such a hard time imagining women as perverted sexual offenders? In our culture we are set up not to believe that women are capable of such horrors, but I think we are just as capable and just as frequent perpetrators as men.

Speaking hard truths is difficult, but even more difficult if we dont' do it in a compassionate way.

Chris Brown beat up his girlfriend, Rihanna. The article on Newsweek's website today would have us believe that Chris is some kind of a monster. But is he?

Medical conditions often make sex seem impossible. Why do we accept this death sentence? Many people accept the idea that they sex is too hard and just give up on it altogether.

Michael Kern, musician extraordinare and Camp Bungie Budda is gone and I, for one, cannot imagine what Kerrville will be like without him...

Women are said to rediscover sex in our 40's. Does this mean we have to have affairs? What's the alternative?

The New York Times report that scientists now say that "true love" can last decades. What makes "true love" last? Why don't most of us experience that?