My Take on Britney Spears by Melody Brooke, MA, Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach#
by Melody Brooke, MA, Conflict Coach, Motivational Speaker

Britney Again

I know, like everyone, you are probably tired of hearing about this wayward prima-dona. But I can't resist talking about her again. I don't know what is going on with her care, but I seriously doubt anyone is giving her the king of care she really needs.

The Dark Defiant One

When you look at a phot like this one, you realized the girl has to be in a lot of pain. Look at her eyes. They are dark and defiant. What I see in those eyes is something I call a "Self Protector", a personality that is daring anyone to mess wit her. Then you see a photo like this one:

The Party Girl

This girl is something entirely different. This is a girl who is out to rescue herself from her pain. She is medicating the pain in the role of "Rescuer" to herself. She becomes the "party girl" to medicate the pain underneath.

Finally you just see her as the woeful waif underneath the pain.

The Innocent Waif

Seeing her in these three photos it's clear she has (at least) three separate ways of operating in the world. One as the defiant "Self Protector", second as the "Rescuer" "party girl", third as the "Victim" or injured waif.

Dissociative Identity Disorder?

Of course, we all have these inside us at different times don't we? Britney may be in a far more extreme display of these roles, she may be Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) as she has claimed (and I believe is fully possible). But the rest of us have these roles inside of us, too. We display these characteristics in smaller, more subtle ways, but they are there aren't they?

. Since 1996 I've studied DID from the likes of Dr. Collin Ross and Dr. Jerry Mungadze (he wrote the forward to Herschel Walker's book, "Breaking Free"). What I have learned is that while those suffering from DID have the clearly dissociated walls of alter egos, we all have the same type of separations with in us, as well. Oh, wow, this really changes everything doesn't it? When we see that the rest of us have these three separate ways of functioning in response to certain types of situations; it changes how we view ourselves and others. We just don't have it as distinctly separate as DID's do.

We are not so different

These separate ways of reacting to threat and fear are typical of how our automatic brain functions. Seeing them in Britney in these photos makes me feel even more strongly that she is DID, obviously I can't make that diagnosis since I have never met her, but boy, it sure looks like it from here.

Talk to me

What do you think? Is Britney suffering from DID? Is she just a spoiled brat? If you KNOW Britney personally, I'd particularly like your take. I know there are a lot of conflicting views on this young woman. I'd love to hear from you. Comment below.

Thursday, February 07, 2008 10:00:44 AM (Central Standard Time, UTC-06:00) #    Comments [3]  | 
Sunday, March 30, 2008 1:04:14 AM (Central Standard Time, UTC-06:00)


Given what I have seen, I think it's unlikely that Britney has DID. In most instances of DID the inners wil do their best to *not* attract attention through the sorts of erratic behaviors Britney displays. They mindfully try and present a uniform front to the outside world, something Ms. Spears is having blatently hard time doing.

While DID is considerably more common than the public and good portions of the mental health profession knows, the idea that all individuals who act erratically should be suspected of having DID would seem to do the systems of those who do have DID an injustice.

Most people with DID rarely act erratically, and few if any of those around them have any suspicion that they have others inside who at times take over executive control.

However many "singletons" do act in erratic manners when under pressure or raised without boundries, and I suspect Britney is more likely to be one of those rather than someone with DID whos system has betrayed it's mission.

Robert Johnson
Sunday, March 30, 2008 3:58:28 PM (Central Standard Time, UTC-06:00)
Unfortunately, DID has as many faces as do "singletons". While most DID's have systems that manage the outward view of what is happening inside in such a way as to prevent others from knowing what is going on, others systems have broken down to the point that one cannot fail to see their is a problem. I've worked with both types. While Brit may not be DID, she certainly has a family that is dysfunctional enough to be suspect... and the there is the Disney linkage, too.
Sunday, March 30, 2008 9:05:58 PM (Central Standard Time, UTC-06:00)


"... and the there is the Disney linkage, too."

LOL....society's whole darn Disney-like linkage, I suspect.

;- )

R.
Robert Johnson
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